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GUYS; BOYS; MEN; MALES or whatever you name it, are indeed a invincible weapon for girls. They can be very nice, very sincere; and very evil, mean and heartless when they feel like it; or maybe when they finish or complete their mission, when you are worthless to them.

I have seen a lot of my friends around me getting hurt by them. They can smile to you sweetly now, and turn into a total stranger the next second. Are they professional or talented "mask players"? In which they may be trained or born in nature to know how to change their "mask" every second. Ha, they are indeed fast and convincing, deserve a MVP.

For her, they can be very fun and interesting initially. Then, the guy attitude change gradually. She thought he would change, if she let him know how he feels. So, eventually, she treat him the same way as he did to her. In the end, it only worsen the situation. She wanted to talk to him about it, but he eventually thought, "why ransack the past, since it's over", and he thought that by not talking and facing it, nothing will happen. However, the girl did not agree with his doing, and ask for a break up. She thought this would make the him realise the seriousness of this matter. She thought, if he likes her, he would try to do anything to get her back. But, she was wrong. He did not even bother to ask for a patch, instead he fell for another girl.

For her. He find her, chat with her, ask her out. Simply, he just do anything sweet to make her fell for him. The girl fell for him gradually, and yes he succeeded. But eventually, the girl is too shy to accept him. So she thought, she could slowly show him how much she likes him when the time ripe. However, before the time ripe, he fell for another girl.

For her, she gave him a lot of chance; break and patch for umpteen times. And this time, she found someone who love her too. So she accepted another him. However, this time, he knew she was really leaving. He did all means to touch her heart. He told her how much he like her. And, this soften her heart. When she has the mindset of going back to him, he hesitate. He said, he may not be able to commit.

For her, this guy chat with her for months. He always initiate the conversation at first. Their chat log, from fast reply, long chat logs to now, slow reply, even shorter chat log. And this is due to the decreasing enthusiasm in him, but her. She fell for him, deeply. But now, the guy don't even bother to give a reply to her message, as he fell for another girl.

For her. She went out with him, umpteen times, and thought that she would never fall for him. She thought they were just friends; she found her best friend. Eventually, he started to do something sweet for her. She was confused, as she thought his mind aren't her's. And, he confessed. She felt his sweetness, thought that he could be different, at the same time, she can't trust what she see. It was too good to be true, too fantasy. And, she knows that his mind is still not her's. Now, everything she thought was right. His mind is still not her's. He played with her heart. Everything is just a dream, a bedtime story. And now, they were like stranger. His mind is still for another girl.

For her, they meet during party; through friend's friend. She caught his eyes. They started to sms each other. Slowly, the girl fell for the guy too. The guy knew it. But he did not take any action to grab the girl. Everytime, their meeting were called off due to the guy. Slowly, the guy show less enthusiasm to her. She feel terrible of how the guy treat her. She decides to leave his world, slowly. She knew this could be hard, but she still take up the challenge. The guy did not even bother to ask why. And slowly, news break about the guy having new girl. She cried.

For her. He was very obvious about him towards her. Friends around her know about it too. She was touched by his doing at times; and she felt overpowered at times too. She knew that she would not ensure his happiness. She told him to give her up, but he insisted that he would wait. She doubt him at times; but gradually believed him after everything. However, she's right. He changed. From caring to don't bother. What he did for her eventually had minimize. Now she is the one who find him, but he still stays cold. She sees no point to it now.

For her. They were together for so long; been through ups and downs. He has a temper, but she just takes in whatever he did; good and bad. They have been through lots of wars; cold and hot, but they can substain this long. They break up, and patch. They quarrel, and she forgave. But this time round. The guy, fell for another girl at the same time. He two-timed her. So, this time, she seriously gave him up. There is this another him, who treats her good. She play hard for him, so he could back off. But eventually, he was even better. And, he melts her heart. She accepted him. However, the matter of the past him did not put to rest. Girls helping the past him to dispute her. They scold her, deframe her. She did nothing wrong to the guy; he is the one who two-timed. And now, she has to bear all the consequences?

After everything. Is there still a need to explain why guys makes an invincible weapon against girls? They make them fell for them, and they don't cherish it after they won the game. They make them trust them, but eventually they threw it away.

Ha, through this, I can conclude that guys can be a good "heart softener". =D

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