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Did you forget that I was even alive?
Did you forget everything we ever had?
Did you forget, did you forget about me?
Did you regret ever standing by my side?
Did you forget we were feeling inside?
Now I'm left to forget about us
But somewhere we went wrong
We were once so strong
Our love is like a song, you can't forget it
So now I guess this is where we have to stand
Did you regret ever holding my hand?
Never again, please don't forget, don't forget
We had it all, we were just about to fall
Even more in love, than we were before
I won't forget, I won't forget about us
But somewhere we went wrong
We were once so strong
Our love is like a song you can't forget it
Somewhere we went wrong
We were once so strong
Our love is like a song, you can't forget it at all
And at last all the pictures have been burned
And all the past is just a lesson that we've learned
I won't forget, please don?t forget us
Somewhere we went wrong
Our love is like a song but you won't sing along
You've forgotten about us
Don't forget
=(
Your focus will most likely shift to financial matters today, taking an otherwise quiet day to deal with your responsibilities in this regard, Aquarius. This is actually good news, because it has to do with something you've wanted or have been trying to develop coming to pass. Either you are finding proof that what you believe is happening is not a figment of your imagination, or you find a way to make it happen that is nearly unbelievable. Keep your dreams and expect the best as you put all your energy into working for what you want.
=DD
Hopefully, I really can PASS!!!!!
After watching "It's complicated", and the last saturday's channel 8 show, I sort of sorten out what I should do. Probably, they are signs.
For now, I think it's that way. I hope I can be determine.
Hmmmmmm, I always wanted to stop contacting. But always, there's excuses, excuses that I made for myself to explain to myself. HAHAHAHAHA.
This time, take drinking as an excuse. What the hell.
我终于问出口了。
虽然我已知道答案，但为了彻底死了这条心。。。
我真的因该放弃了。
那已不是我们共有的天空了。
The longer you wait, the less likely you are to get back together with your man. Why?
Because if he discovers there IS life after you or finds another woman he's happy with, you may lose your chance to get back together forever.
http://www.gettinghimback.com/
05 折疊式愛情
詞：姚若龍 / 曲：佳芳同學、阿鳩
一起在海边吹风 忽然有流星划过
滚烫的手 降落肩头
很强烈感觉胸口的震动
偶尔温柔的日落 还有暗示的幽默
你想什麼 我不太懂
只晓得期待越多越难过
你带著可以摺叠的爱情
我在等不会变形的真心
被抱在你怀里 却要提防你
爱要多聪明才能逃得过哭泣
走走停停的时钟 深深浅浅的互动
你没有说一句爱我
却把我摆在爱的氛围中
你带著可以摺叠的爱情
我在等不会变形的真心
被抱在你怀里 却要提防你
爱要多聪明才能逃得过哭泣
你那种可以摺叠的爱情
带给我夹著开心的伤心
有时候挣扎著 陷落在泥泞
有时又忘了一切的飞行
这是幸福的等候 心酸的前奏
要放下太多的疑惑 才能专心去快乐
你那种可以摺叠的爱情
带给我夹著开心的伤心
有时候挣扎著 陷落在泥泞
有时又忘了一切的飞行
面对你可以摺叠的爱情
该要有什麼样子的表情
为什麼不能问 不能更透明
想要保护自尊的爱 藏著孤寂
不能握的手 卻比愛人還長久
藍又時《秘密》
你就直接回頭吧 她在等著你
不要怕我會哭泣 早就在心底
想想你說過的話 其實我們不虛假
那就好吧 其實你對我不差
別對我食之無味 棄之可惜
雖然你還有感覺 但不是愛情
想想你說過的話 其實我們不虛假
那就好了吧 這些夠了呀
我們的愛情是秘密 不能成立
就算我愛你也不能夠說明
他在你身邊逗你開心
我只不過讓你歇斯底里
你就讓我跟著你 一起祕密
我們的事情說好不提起
讓我們 都能夠清晰 你和他是不變的定律
I'm learning, I'm learning. But deep in my heart, it's still reluctant to forget..
Romantic relationships can be really complicated and end up in a bad breakup. The worst thing about these "sad endings" is that at least one heart ends up broken. Sometimes, it's even hard for both sides--after all, breaking up is not easy to do. It hurts to throw away your story with someone--all the good memories and the dreams and plans you two had for the future. But you must face the fact that your heart is broken. It doesn't matter if you wish things could be different or if you even regret something you did. It doesn't matter if you think you shouldn't have become that involved with that person or if you're angry and looking for revenge. The fact is: Your heart is broken!
Even if the only thing you want to do is win your partner back - and by the way, if you're interested in doing this then I strongly recommend The Magic of Making Up - when a relationship is truly over, it's time to begin the healing process.
So now what? Are you going to sit and cry for the rest of your life or do you intend to do something? Was that ending your fault or are you not the one to blame? Is there something you can do to fix it? Is there something you should stop and think about so you can act in a better way the next time 'round? There are many things you can do to heal a broken heart! And the best thing is: It all depends on you!
Step 1:
Cry out everything you have to cry about! When we get hurt, it's normal (and good) to cry. Don't ever think you're being weak for crying and don't feel embarrassed because of it! It's normal and it's good! When you cry, you let go of part of your anger and hurt so you can feel less heavy. You can lock yourself in a room, if you want to, and put on some sad music...but let yourself feel the pain and cry so you can let it go. The main thing here is: Get rid of the pain! Just let her go!
Step 2:
Get busy! When you're trying to get someone out of your head, you need to put other things inside of it. In other words...get busy! It doesn't matter how, you just need to get distracted. Go to a movie, watch a play, travel. It doesn't matter what are you going to do--the important thing is to find something to do. Find a hobby, find something you enjoy doing, something to keep your mind busy. If your mind is busy, it doesn't have time or space to think about the person you're trying to forget. (The thing is, I am jobless..)
Step 3:
Spend some time with your friends. Friends are always great to have in this kind of situation! Friends can make you feel good about yourself and get you distracted very easily. They will certainly make you laugh and make you see that you're way more important than you think! The only warning is: Ask them not to talk about the person you're trying to forget. If they start bringing the topic up in every conversation, you won't be able to forget, and instead of making you laugh, they're going to make you cry. So be honest and ask them not to talk about it! (And my friends is related to him...)
Step 4:
Avoid the person! Try not to go to places you know you can meet that person. When you're trying to forget someone and you two keep seeing each other, it gets hard to get over it. If you meet him/her somewhere, just be nice and kind, but find an excuse to go away as fast as you can! If you work or study with him/her and you can't avoid seeing him/her, just try not to look and not to talk too much. Just be gentle and keep busy all the time so you won't have excuses to look at him/her or to chat.
(I can't, it's contradicting.. I'm in a dilemma of wanting to spend as much time with him as I'm leaving- stupid thoughtss.. haiyaaaaaaaaaaaa..)
Step 5:
Go out and see some different faces! Being at home gives you more time to think about it, which makes the process even more difficult. So even if you're not feeling excited or you're in a bad mood, just put on your best clothes, best shoes, best smile, call some friends and go somewhere nice where you can dance, drink, listen to some music. And the most important: See some different faces! When you go out, you notice that the person you're trying to forget is not the only one who's got a perfect smile and an amazing voice...thank god, there are other interesting people around the world, too!
(I did try to, but, non make me feel that they are more perfect than he is.)
Step 6:
Avoid every kind of romantic thing! If you're trying to forget someone, you'd better not watch romantic movies or listen to romantic songs...it makes you feel bad and you will certainly remember the person you're trying to get rid of. It doesn't matter if it's a song you love or if it's playing on the radio...just change the station or do something else! Put on some happy songs, dancing songs, watch some comedies, terror movies, whatever...you just need to avoid the romantic things for now!
Step 7:
Take good care of yourself. Women tend to run for some kind of self-destruction when they're hurt. If we break up our perfect relationship, then we have no reason to get our nails done anymore and the only thing that gives us comfort is chocolate and sugar. That way, the only thing we do is to become less attractive and lessen our self-confidence. So if you're hurt, just try to use your pain for yourself instead of against you. Go to the gym, work out a lot, get your nails and hair done...do whatever you can so you can feel more pretty and confident!
(I'm lazy, and always less confident. He is always my confident origin.)
Step 8:
Accept the process! You can be really strong and it's still going to hurt. The process takes time and you have to accept that! You can't hope to forget in 2 days someone you loved for 2 years...and you can't pretend to be strong if you feel like crying. Just face your pain and accept that it's not easy and it's going to take some time. When you're patient with yourself and your situation, things tend to get easier...
=(
Well, of course, forgetting someone is not easy to do nor is it easily explained in just 8 steps. But there are some things that make the process a lot smoother. As I said, it takes time and it's hard but I'm sure you can do it! The only thing that is really, really important is: It all depends on you! Don' ever forget that! If you want to forget someone, then you will, there is no doubt! Even if it takes a long time, even if you have to be really strong...you will be! In that kind of situation we usually find out that we are a lot stronger than we give ourselves credit for! So believe that. Believe that, take a deep breath and move on! Your life's waiting for you, baby!
MidnightShadow (5771) 2007-02-08 13:59:48 Ahh I had this problem about a year ago. I thought I met the girl of my dreams. We had been high school buddies since day one and I thought we were going to be together forever, then we ended up in two different colleges, and two different life goals that only lead further away from each other. I was totally crushed knowing this and it hurt me for the longest time. The only care for something (at least that worked for me) was to find something better then them. Thats what happen to me because i'm so in love with my girlfriend right now I have I hardly remember the bad times. So in short, fall in love with another person and you'll forget the pass events
sisophous (3738) 2007-02-08 14:29:19 Sisophous agrees with MidnightShadow, you need to make new relationships and just let it go. I take it this person does not share your same feelings and you realize this otherwise would have approached him.
People often have tunnel vision and become preoccupied with one person which often builds frustration and can make us miserable. Such infatuations interfere with our daily activities and are counterproductive to happiness. Get out and meet new people, join clubs, go to parties. Rigorous exercise is also terrific to rest your mind. Go out and jog a few miles or swim laps in an indoor pool.
This special person is not the only one who will capture your heart, there are plenty more just around the corner if you are open minded and give other people a chance. In time, this special guy will eventually fade away, like a distant memory.
MrPokerjuly (12090) 2007-12-06 11:14:30
I understand where you are comming from, I was with an older woman since I was 17 years old she was 27. We got married 3 years ago but things just don't seem right anymore. We both have a different point of view on everything. I love her so much but we need to let go. I can't seem to get her out of my head and it drives me insane. I was diagnosed with Bipolar and this doesn't seem to help the situation any lol. The thought of someone else being with my true love I think would send me off the deep end. I'm 27 now and still can't deal with losing her.
Pringletot (13040) 2008-09-04 19:53:45 Sorry but I agree with junker, you can't truly get over someone, in 8th grade I was in love with this girl and now in 10th grade I still think about her a lot, not as much as before but I never really got over her
http://isitnormal.com/story/how-to-forget-someone-you-love-7469/
From this thread, I seriously think it's easier to say, but hard to be done. =(
Why must one realise only when they lost it?
Why must I always be like this?
When will I actually learn?
要習慣沒有你的氣繫
Arghhhhhhhhhh. I am seriously angry about myself. What are all these? I'm getting tire.
I hate the fact that I actually miss him. Hate the "what if" running through my mind. Hate to become emo. Will I really get over him??
I hate the guesssssing game. I am seriously tire. Hate myself for making such decisions. Hate the things that I did. Thoughts of ending all these, everything, even run through my mind. This is bad. It scares me. I am actually tire of living. LOL.
What am I doing? I am trap in a room, without doors and windows to my solution. It's dark and cold inside. I am so selfish. =(
Nobody could save me.
I don't wanna stay here anymoreee. It hurts. The feeling of so near yet couldn't reach out any further, hurts. The feeling of can't do anything, but emo; lead me nowhere, is crazily dauting me.
I don't want to be this emo. I thought my feelings for you faded? Why does it feel so real, so hurting once again?
I want to shut down this mind please. Hear my prayers. Stop my pain.
I want to end all these. Stupid emo shits.
只剩下鋼琴陪我談了一天
睡著的大提琴
安靜的舊舊的
我想你已表現的非常明白
我懂我也知道
你沒有捨不得
你說你也會難過我不相信
牽著你陪著 我也只是曾經
希望他是真的比我還要愛你
我才會逼自己離開
Chorus
你要我說多難堪
我根本不想分開
為什麼還要我用微笑來帶過
我沒有這種天份
包容你也接受他
不用擔心的太多
我會一直好好過
你已經遠遠離開
我也會慢慢走開
為什麼我連分開都遷就著你
我真的沒有天份
安靜的沒這麼快
我會學著放棄你
是因為我太愛你
What's wrong with me? Thought it's not the same anymore. Thought I don't feel it anymore? What's up with the actions, and laziness I had after hearing that chances of meeting you is little. Blaaaaaaaaaa.
So lazy to go now. I wanna meet you. Everyday.
我想切斷一切關於你的氣繫.
=(
